by dexeron » Fri Dec 23, 2016 10:00 am
We never fully lived up to our ideals, we were just better at brushing the ugliness under the carpet.
That's not the same thing as saying that our ideals are worthless though. People were willing to literally die to try to make us be just a little closer to fulfilling them.
Still, it's silly to be "proud" of being American, or from any country. Pride is for something you've accomplished, not an accident of birth. "Pride" in a country is dumb, and leads to mindless nationalistic jingoism ("America, love it or leave it" instead of actually saying "Do we really live up to these ideals, and if not, what can we do better?") but loyalty to ideals and principles is worthwhile, as is perhaps some pride when we manage to bend the moral arc of our nation closer to justice.
Remember, the framers never said "This will build a perfect union." They said it was to build a "more perfect union."
In other words, don't get a big head about how America is the greatest country ever - but at the same time don't fall into the opposite extreme of letting perfect be the enemy of good. Recognize what we do well, and what we don't do well, and us that knowledge to help make things even better so that when we hand things off to the next generation, they'll be in an even better position to continue to make a just world.