I wouldn't say I'm getting more out of anything - All I said was an excessively and rigid materialist outlook can suck the romance out of life and produce negative emotional states.
I don't think Dex is having the problems with his outlook that I had with mine, when mine was somewhat similar - so that doesn't apply to him, and I honestly have very little concept of what's going on with you, what you believe, or what you even like.