by Rip » Fri May 17, 2013 10:45 am
Hi everyone; my name is Rip, long time poor-as-fuck, first time richer.
I tell ya, when you go from "we're feeding the family Campbell's again tonight so we can afford Deli Pizza Night on Friday" to "cooking..? That's what they do after we order, right?", it is VERY HARD to not just buy the shit society has been telling me I need to be happy. And by "VERY HARD" I mean "my graphic novel collection has quintupled".
I grew up with two people who worked hard, in many cases without dignity, slaved away, and came home to more work to do...and debt to show for it. I grew up raised by people who stressed themselves nearly to death just to scrape meager meals together for three ungrateful kids, keep the lights on, and occasionally have a good Christmas. There was no college fund, there was no new car until the last one finally died a gruesome death, and if you wanted more than 25 bucks in your birthday cards you were a greedy little shit. THIS was the reward for working. And we were GODDAMN LUCKY we never experienced a medical crisis worse than a broken leg or two...Flannel only knows where I'd be now if a stray tornado came a few miles east/west.
Both of my parents graduated four-year state universities. Aside from a couple hiccups in my father's case, they were always constantly employed while I was growing up (this of course changed during the Recession, but that's a whole different topic). Their marriage didn't survive my sophomore year in high school.
And then I get here, where people don't work NEARLY at the stress levels my parents lived with every day. They come in at 10, breeze out around 4:30 (unless it's Friday!), and bitch about welfare while donating to Haiti/Boston/Whatever's Trending.
The dignity of the working man was based on esoteric concepts like "being proud to be part of the work force" or "doing your part for the community/economy". This is necessary, because if you strip out all that bullshit, you're left with "millions of families ruined because of imaginary numbers in a corporation's database somewhere".
Muhammad fed the hungry. Superman saves the helpless. Jesus clothed the naked. Shaft risks his neck for his brother man. I don't understand a society whose heroes would be vilified by its Moral Majority.