by Rip » Tue Aug 06, 2013 3:09 pm
I get that too. I understand that Phant and everyone else whose job it is that has to deal with human death, especially in the causing of it, has to do certain things to their heads to be able to deal with what they do.
I understand what it's like to have to deal with the guy in your job who took it on himself to ignore the rules his peers all follow, and I understand that chaos results from disorder, and I more than understand what it's like to have to put yourself to the grind that much harder when one of your co-workers goes off the rails.
I'll betcha one of those eight people knew what it feels like too. I'll betcha some of them had had a hard day at work within the recent week or so of their lives, I'll betcha some of them took it out on their children or their spouse, and I'll betcha some of them enjoyed a delicious breakfast somewhere within that time frame too.
Because they were human beings. Human beings who were turned into desensitizing phrases.
Phant is right: those of us who never chose to take money for enabling the death of other human beings will ever, EVER know what it's like. He's also right, in that culturally, we have to see those humans who chose to do so in very extreme viewpoints. They are either justified in the death they deal, in which case they are heroes, or they are not, in which case they are murderers. Sometimes, because humans are humans and mistakes are made in every "job", a hero kills an innocent man.
Our culture is much murkier on this point.
When things get murky for humans, we leap at extremes. Military people claim that no civilian will ever know what it's like. They "other" us, and place themselves above us, because they have to believe that they are heroes, willing to do a job us puny civilians can never understand. The alternative is (hopefully) utter functionless depression. This is not an effective mindset to have when trying to stay employed.
Unfortunately, Phant's job is necessary, if only because official murderers are very good at stopping unofficial murderers who do not like to play by the pretend rules at all. Civilians are capable of understanding this.
In fact, the idea that "civilian human beings" and "military human beings" can never understand each other may be the biggest issue here. Separating humans is the first step to destroying them, after all, and the military understands this very well. You have to train a man to see another man as not a man. It's just that the rest of us men want to be sure that you don't lose sight of it entirely ("you" being "all of you").
When we, who are separated from the Heroic Killers, see our heroes do something that could only have come to them at the end of a long journey of desensitization, and we have not ourselves been desensitized, we get scared. It is as natural a reaction as fearing the dog you raised as a puppy when he snarls and bares his fangs, and it is a fear borne out of intelligence, not ignorance. Turning your back on a dangerous thing is stupid, all humans know this.
The point, then, is that Superman is held to a higher ideal. The Joker is not. We don't expect The Joker to care for his victims, we expect him to mock them, because he is Evil. We expect Superman to remember his victims, and to apologize for each one, not to turn his nose away and call them human debris, even though it makes his job easier to do so, even when they are Doomsday. It may be easier, but it's not heroic.
The world isn't black and white; "good" and "evil" are what we collectively decide. But the weight of culture is against villains, and we know what they act like; we create our stories around them.
So I guess what I'm saying is, don't tell us we can't understand you. You are us.